Owning My Part Is The Way Out of Any Conflict
Looping in familiar fights and stuck arguments is futile. At some point we need to learn to fight.
Why We Attract Hurtful Patterns Into Our Lives
In our habitual patterns, there’s an important lesson waiting for you to get. Will you choose to dive in an find it, or keep blaming?
A Simple 4-step Method for Resolving Conflict
Here’s a short video on how to resolve conflict in a long-term partnership
For Couples Who Want to Learn Conflict
Ever meet that couple that’s been married for years that says proudly, “We never fight!” Um, yeah. That’s often (not always) a yellow flag for me. After I spend time with these folks it turns out that under their “polite” demeanor, they are afraid of the C word. While this couple can claim they have…
Conflict-Wasting Time Fighting Over Who’s Right
For couples who habitually do conflict by trying to be right. Here’s another way.
The Value of Clearing Conflict with Your Partner
If a couple wants to unlock their relationship potential, and really deepen over time, they need to clear the decks and get to zero. Zero means nothing is under the rug, no more hiding, and all resentments and withholds are aired and cleared. Otherwise, they spend time getting tripped up by all the baggage that…
For Men Who Hang in There During Conflict
Sometimes men will “hang in there” during a fight to hear their woman out. But “hanging in there” won’t cut it for either party. Hanging in there is what we do when we are beyond our threshold. Hanging in there is what we don’t have tools, can’t truly listen, or would rather be doing something…
