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How to Deal With The Distancer-Pursuer Dynamic (Part 2) – SC 72

If you want more space while your partner wants more connection, no need to frustrate anymore. Just relax and know this dynamic is very normal. Here are a few things you can to do today to move toward both parties getting what they want.

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How to Deal With The Distancer-Pursuer Dynamic (Part 1) – SC 71

What is going on with a partner who distances and how do you deal it? In the first of our 2- part series, Ellen and I help the pursuers (connectors) understand and deal with your distancing partner. In part 2, we’ll help the distancer deal with their “needy” or connection-focused partner.

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Saying Yes To Relationship Pain – SC 70

Relationship pain can be your friend or foe. The choice is up to you.

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The Grass Is Greener Syndrome In Relationships – SC 69

In this episode, I share my personal drama with the grass is greener syndrome, what it’s really about, and how to get through it.

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Your Relationship Q’s – Anger, Jealousy, Depression, Honesty, Premature Ejaculation & More – SC 68

Our relationships trigger the deepest of human emotions and experiences. In this episode, I answer some fun, very painful, and challenging questions from you the listener.

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3 Steps To Become More Resilient Before, During & After A Fight with Dr. Rick Hanson – SC 67

It is possible to rewire your brain in relationships and build inner strength. Not doing so leads to more and more stress and dysfunction over time. Check out Rick Hanson as he helps us understand the brain and relationships.

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Fault vs Responsibility – SC 66

Listen to some semi-hate mail from a listener and find out the difference between me asking someone to take responsibility vs me blaming someone and making it their fault.

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Laser Coaching On Infidelity, Trust, & Blended Families – SC 65

Two podcast listeners share how the podcast has impacted them in their marriage and as a blended family. They also get some laser coaching on their infidelity and trust issues.

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