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Care-Taking vs Caring For
Are you a care-taker? Rescuer? Is it really serving you or those you care about? Let’s explore what drives this behavior and its cost. Then choose.
Agency
By re-framing selfishness and putting our own needs and desires above anyone else’s, we not only feel better, we serve more people
The Year of Self Love
a summer update as we move into harvest time
Co-Dependency In Marriage
Co-Dependency In Marriage is a tricky one. Contrary to popular belief, codependency isn’t the bad guy. It’s a necessary part of human relationships. But you must know how to work with it…
A Classic Teenage Relationship Dynamic Where Both Girls and Boys Lose
When boys ask girls for a hug, it sets up a cascade of events where both parties lose and betray themselves
What To Do If You Are With An Emotional Woman
Many men misinterpret David Deida’s teaching about standing there in the face of your woman’s wrath. Here’s what not to do.
Conflict Avoidance
Since most of us grew up with no great role models around how to do conflict, it’s understandable why we hold back.
How Much Intimacy Can You Tolerate?
The way you have your life set up could say a lot about how much intimacy you desire or how scared you are to get it
Why Your Teenage Son Needs His Ass Kicked
our culture does little to nothing to assist teen boys in crossing the threshold into manhood. here’s why that must change
The Secret Teaching of Parenting
Parenting takes on a whole new meaning when we have the proper context.