When There’s a Wall Between You and Your Spouse

In a marriage when things have become stuck, and the love has stopped flowing between the couple, there’s no such thing as “there’s a wall between us.” It’s one person’s wall and another person’s wall. Then there’s how each party is lobbing “blame grenades” over their walls at the other person. But the couple can actually get somewhere new when each person takes responsibility for how they are protecting themselves. We must own where we are stopping the love on our individual side.